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HOW to make anyone feel good!?

Be the person that makes others feel special be known for your kindness and grace.
--writer unknown

There are many ways to make anyone feel good/special.

i will explain few of them i think it will really work for you so, read the full article to know every thing about the topic.

so lets start....

lets suppose you are talking to somebody and you are also doing a particular work that time then stop that work and pay attention to their words by making a slight eye contact with him/her. They will feel special at that moment.recognize if they are feeling down or depressed you can sentences like ,i think you are awesome and i hope you can do it and things will go in right place.You can do things as complement them on their looks appearance as their smartness a small weight loss may be which make them feel you care for them.  Say, “I want   you to know you make a difference in my life. Thank you for being you.” tell them that you believe them that they can achieve their goals.If they don,t have a clear dream help them acknowledge their dream and tell them about their potential that what things they can do  with that talent that they have.


MY main purpose of explaining above things is actually i.e, make them know their potential .
our second topic which we should keep in mind that  is GIVE GENEROUSLY .
give them time to listen,to or support, or just to enjoy each others company.
give them a work referral and  say them by seeing this first i realized that this work can only be completed by you and this time of much more stuffs.
Give  a frequent introduction  to someone they'd enjoy knowing and introduce them with a good complement .
Give them your approval nod their head when their talking and commend their thoughts and ideas.
give them opportunity to shine in front of others when you are tempted to dominate the conversation,
and give them credit about the things they where right about.

 Another thing is we have to be  AFFECTIONATE to them.
give them a hug when they are feeling down,and hold it just a little longer.. i will recommend mostly to couples to try this idea.

 SHARE YOURSELF
share your feelings, fears ,your honest opinions,your dreams with them they will feel as much close to them.share your stuffs, resources  with them that they can  use and feel comfortable.
if you want to show them  their trust share a secret.
share your spirituality with them and invite them on doing stuffs like practicing yoga or going to their holy place.
share something you value with them to show them you value them more.
ask if you can help in what they are planning to do or work.
plan a surprise event for them so that they can feel special  either to celebrate a tiny victory or to show them that you care about them.
spend lot of time with them on weekends or on holy day so that they do not feel lonely or if their is some bad thoughts in their mind they forget about that and can be happier ever.
my main theme ove explaining above 5 lines is to stay together  that they can feel good.

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thanks
yours truly

ADARSH KUMAR

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